Megan TS#12

David and his brother, Matthew changed schools recently so they both have science packets to do as a means of demonstrating their comprehension of the lesson they missed in class. While his mother and I discussed it on the way to the library Matthew gloated to David about he was already finished with his packet and that consequently David wasn't as smart as he was. I knew this had to hurt Davids confidence as any sort of immature sibling rivalry would, especially when concerning one's own intelligence in comparison to the other. As a twin, I think David is very affected internally by the success of his brother to the point where he loses his motivation try completely in the fear that he won't do as well even if he did attempt wholeheartedly. Upon hearing Matthews words, I interjected that, therefore David could take as much time as he wanted with his packet. When David and I began his lesson I think he was still a bit upset. For this reason, I reassured him that he could do anything and to always remember that it's not about the pace with which a project is done, but the effort and quality put into the work that makes it great. These words seemed to help because we were able to get through three full pages. Ultimately, I think that my main focus should be to continue to keep David as motivated as possible so that he can see for himself how intelligent he is becoming through his studies and achievements. I believe that this kind of understanding is just as valuable as any other lesson I could have taught him that day. With my assistance, chiefly as a moral support, he finished
a great deal of difficult questions relating to scientific facts and jargon.

Since we never fully finished the lesson, David and I met for an extra session. All David truly needs is a motivation. I told his mother that I think that David has so much potential to grow in his talents and skills as he matures. Although she worries for him, I explained that by high school David should be able to express himself more as he develops more hobbies. David is extremely creative and quick witted, so I am sure that he will succeed and be fulfilled just as much as his brother. His mother thanked me for all of our sessions with donuts and a lovely book mark in the shape of a traditional Korean fan. I treasured this gift just as much as I did the donuts.